WORDS

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OK!the topic for today!~~~WORDS


our life is a game.a competition for all of us.n the game involves words.u don't understand?ok,let me explain it.Allah created us to see which of us  have the best deeds.words that we speak can be either good or bad deeds.we like it when other people say good things to us n about us,right?so,start saying good words to other people or about other people so that we can increase our good deeds.Allah (S.W.T.) says in Surat Qaaf, (Verse 18), what can be translated as, "Not a word does he (or she) utter, but there is a watcher by him ready (to record it)."  the watcher  right here means the angels that Allah sent to record our deeds.so,it's best for us to speak good words at all time.


we have to be careful not to say unappopriate words at all time coz our tounge can lead us to Jannah n Hellfire(na'uzubillah).good words=Jannah n bad words=Hellfire
get it?


The Messenger (S.A.W.) warned us that talk is very dangerous. In an authentic hadith reported by Imam At-tirmidhi and Ibn-Majah, that he said, "A person may say a word that is pleasing to Allah (S.W.T.) and he may not think much of it, but Allah (S.W.T.) will, (because of that word), bestow his pleasure upon him on the Day of Judgment, and a person may say a word that is displeasing to Allah (S.W.T.), and he may not think much of it, but Allah will have, (because of that word) his wrath and anger on him on the Day of Judgment."


we must speak good things at all time or else,it's better for us to be silent.this is like what the prophet S.A.W said~"Whosoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him say good or remain silent."
           reported by Imam Bukhari and Muslim




sometimes,we say  bad  things to someone when shouldn't do it.we should talk to other people properly even if they did something wrong and sinful.good words can help to change bad people into better people.who knows,maybe someday they can be better than us.lectures,advices n  religious talk are the examples of good words.if we wanna do it,make sure we do it perfectly without hurting anbody's feelings.


we've been trying to do this since we're small.our parents,teachers and other people teaches us to say the truth and to watch our manners during speaking.however,it's not easy as we thought it would be.there are arrogant people who won't listen to good words we're saying.n there are also shaitan n our nafs  that tries their best to make us the opposite self than what we're trying to be.this is the biggest n toughest fight for us as they are not easy to be defeated.this is why we need to always upgrade our iman so that we can fight them.


one more thing.sometimes we try to make jokes to cheer up other people.but,we're doing it the wrong way.our prophet Muhammad S.A.W. tells us not to lie even though we're joking n that is how our prophet(S.A.W.) did.



that is all for now.if u guys wanna know more,you can look at thishttp://members.cox.net/ameer1/mannerst.html
i used this as a reference for this post.
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